IT HAS BEEN A BUSY WEEK

WOW  It has been a busy week. With school starting and getting into the swing of things it is amazing that I am sitting here writing this right now. I can say that I do have a lot of work to be doing lol but I wanted to take the minute to let my followers know what is going on in my world. 
My son is coming home on the 6th of Feb. I had to send him to his grandmothers because he was acting out very badly back in Oct. well his behavior has not changed at all so now he is coming back here. My plan is to get him in to anger management therepy. He is so angry at his dad that he really has no idea how to control it. I think some home school or private school would help him as well. I think that it is to much authority figure in his life that he just doesn't know who to listen to. He has lack of respect for anybody. Which seems to be a tread with a lot of kids these days. And where do we figure out that changed from back in the day when we were not aloud to disrespect authority, now they do it and get away with it. Well not my son, not no more. I am putting a BIG hult to that shit!
Now lets get on to my soon to be 14 year old daughter, who has an attitude from hell over lord only knows what. The other night she got really mad at me because her bff stole  her boyfriend (I don't approve of this age dating I might add, but the adopted parents, well are not me) so she procceeds to get irate because I was not talking to her, I was talking to my mom on the phone instead. And she began sending me messages telling me to F*&^ off calling me a bitch and a cunt, then was trying to hurt my feelings by saying "she is more of a mom cause she has been there for me and you haven't". That might of hurt a little but I responded back to her, "I am gratful for her being there when I couldn't and it wasn't like I didn't want to be there all this time, it was that I was not allowed to be!"
Well let me tell you this, I bought her phone, and I sure as hell turned the damn thing off! Now she is really pissed at me! And you know what I don't care right now. I will not allow anybody to speak to me the way she did, and that includes my children. And she will learn that, and if she can't respect me then it is her loss and not mine. Because I know I did not do anything to her, and I did not deserve to be spoke to like that. 
Well I have been busy with school this week and I am sure it is going to be days gone by that I don't make a post, but just know that this weight is ALWAYS on my mind so I am ALWAYS going to have something to come post at some point lol 
I am still at 280 pounds, that is 4 pounds lost since I began my journey......which reminds me I need to look up what day that was I forgot! lol